The hurt that comes with getting played will force you to seek revenge. And this publication reveals how to revenge on a guy who played you.
If you asked the average person to advise you, they would say, “Move on, it is not worth it.” But they are not always right. Your ego seeks vengeance, and to unpin the hurt, you want to torment this player of a guy.
Even though you may be struggling to manage your feelings, you want to keep your emotions in check. Being aggressive or vindictive will only bring more wins to the guy who played you.
But before you see these player tips, know this: your success, getting in shape, and moving forward are the best ways to revenge on a guy who played you.
How to revenge on a guy who played you
Your first good move is acknowledging that you were played. Now, do the following to this player as revenge:
Consider if revenge is worth it
Seeking revenge can force you to play dirty. First, determine if it is worth it to clap back at the guy for playing you. Determine your motivations, and what you would gain revenging.
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Note that revenge can increase your anger or even make you deal unfairly with others. You want to be careful not to alter your perception of others over this one guy.
Consider the situation that makes you think you were played to know if it warrants revenge. You would need to think long and hard before making the move.
Get rid of the guy’s photos
He played you but that does not mean you were completely erased from their memory. They still think of you, and, perhaps, have photos of you but you no longer need theirs right now.
Start by removing tags of you from pictures of them you were tagged on social media. In this way, you will not be tempted to post these pictures of them.
It is not good advice if anyone says you should post photos of them, even if unflattering ones. It would only mean “seeking and craving their attention”, which is not what revenge is all about.
Get rid of their photos in your gallery. If you need to keep any of them, store them in a specific folder in your cloud storage. Of course, you barely access that.
If you feel top tempted to post their pictures, then do so on spam forums. But you may only be making them trend.
Sign the guy up for email spam
You want to crash their party by signing them up on various newsletters and spam. You only need their valid email address.
There are lots of spam sites out there looking to market products and services. Unfortunately, some of these spam websites will attempt to phish their private information such as bank details.
The idea is to keep their email inbox messy. They would be waking up to hundreds or thousands of unsolicited email notifications they know nothing about.
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You can also sign them up on adult sites. This should take you a few minutes. Note also that some of the spam emails will end up in their spam boxes but a good annoying number of them will make it to their primary inbox.
Publish their phone numbers
You can also revenge on a guy who played you by publishing their phone numbers online or print and paste the numbers on the street. You want to be completely anonymous so that they never know it is you.
Suppose you want to publish their phone numbers all over Facebook. Create an anonymous Facebook account for it.
Sign up on forums and publish the phone numbers. Unfortunately, internet scammers will use the number to contact them to phish for their bank details and other personal information.
Make a simple poster with their phone numbers on it and write there “Call Me”. They would start receiving phone calls from strangers they no know – really annoying.
Flirt with the people they know
Your next move should be to flirt with people the guy knows, including their friends and relatives. Perhaps, they played you indeed but it hurts them to see you happy with people they know – friends and relatives.
You want him to be jealous or insecure. And the guy may even get the impression that you were not loyal in the first place.
Also, they will develop some sort of hatred for their friends you flirt with for accepting you so closely. Their ego believes that none of their friends should have a thing to do with you, especially if they confided in those friends that they played you.
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Start a conversation with their friend and behave flirtatiously. You can casually brush their arm, make eye contact, hug gently, or hold their hands. Be in control and attach no emotions to it.
Tip the police about their illegal activities
If they are into drugs or some illegal activity that you know of, tip your local law enforcement agency anonymously.
Use an anonymous email address to report what you know. Share picture and video proof if any. Before attaching the images and videos, clear the EXIF data with any EXIF removal application or software to erase any stored location information in the shared media.
Kick them out of their job
You can have the guy kicked from their job if you believe they deserve it. However, if the job is what they need to keep their head above water, do not go after it.
The only justifiable reason will be if they are sexually, verbally, or physically abusive. You also want to anonymously gather data about their attitude at work.
If they regularly curss at work, pay someone to provoke them. Their reaction will cause the company to question their attitude. Here is an extensive guide for kicking someone out of their work as revenge.
Give them a bad date
The point is to embarrass the guy who played you in front of their new romantic interest. Suppose the guy is on a date. You want to do something to embarrass him or even make their new romantic interest question the relationship.
Walk up to him and loudly ask about an embarrassing item he left at your apartment. It could be their dirty boxers or adult toys.
Be nice to the new girl. Your focus should be on the player guy to give the new girl a bad impression about them.
Ignore their messages
They would not play you in the first place if you were his priority. Coming back does not also mean they will not play you the second time if they have to.
Simply ignore him, even if you meet them in person. Talking to them gives the impression that you are ready to be played again.
Do not return their phone calls, texts, or emails, and cut them off your social media accounts. Do not block them though. Even if you did, unblock them after sometime. Allow them to waste their time in your inbox without response.
You could even post those screenshots online but ensure to cover their profile picture and name.
Take care of yourself
Taking care and improving yourself is the best way to revenge on a guy who played you. Start working out to look and feel better.
Stick to a form of exercise you enjoy doing the most and associate with other people working out. Make sure to seek the doctor’s advice before starting a new program to avoid straining your body.
Do other things that attract happiness, such as going out, seeing a movie with friends, and visiting your family.
Happiness is always the best form of revenge when played by a guy and your happiness makes your ex sad, which is partly pride and ego.
You want to make the most of the present situation and move forward. Remember the good things about your life, and focus on your career, social life, and hobbies.
Consider letting it go
Give yourself time to heal and consider forgiveness. You do not have to agree with being played by the guy but bank on the thought that he is only a human doing what humans do.
Describe their action as a “mistake”, not in a way to justify playing you but as a way to help you find closure.
Have in mind that forgiveness is not a sign of weakness but the ability to overcome negative emotions such as vengeance.